For most people, meeting friends, going to town or having fun in the snow is no problem at all…
For me however these things are actually extremely exhausting… not physically, but mentally and I usually need a couple of days – as I did now – to gather myself.
Then I need to be alone and for myself. Even contact from people I like is very difficult to bear.
Sometimes I binge watch a TV-Series or play a game extensively for a couple of days and then – slowly – things become better.
Most people I know do not understand these things, think I do not like them anymore or I set them aside… but it is not that.
It is just the package I have to carry.
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Ninja is the only one I let close during these days. He is always there for me and does not expect anything in return ❤️ This make it a lot easier to get back to normal.
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I do not need anyone’s pity… Just want to explain why I sometimes can’t ( even though I want to ) post, answer comments and messages… and then I come back and catch up with things… Which I am doing now.
You don’t know how much (unfortunately) I understand you. Greets.
Du schuldest hier wirklich niemandem etwas. Auch keine Rechtfertigung. Ich kann das soo gut verstehen! – Mir geht es genauso. Leider stoße auch ich immer wieder auf Unverständnis, aber meine beiden Hunde sind immer für mich da.
Same. All of it, with only my husky and my cats allowed.
Take all the time you need 🙂 Your own mental health is far more important than keeping other people and strangers on the internet happy (which you already do more than enough none the less ;D) so thank you !
And I personally understand the importance of „me-time“ to recharge very well 🙂
I feel the same way from being introverted, it’s a struggle but our dogs are there for us 🙂
I understand. This is me to a „T“. Except where you have Ninja I have my pup Drogo.
Dogs are always there for us. He is your best companion. I understand what you mean. Sometimes we need silence.
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Fantastic it looks very nice you can see that it took a lot of time!
I just stayed home in bed from Friday night until this morning. 4 days. I completely understand.
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